"Marriage"
After seeing many positive and negative examplary of marriages, I came across few conclusions which I would like to share with you all...
I think the concept of marriage is the most important and yes most beautiful thing that can ever happen to us......
We have good friends, Family n the whole world but still we look for someone special… our sweetheart:) with whom we can share our life ,love ,feelings ,joys & sorrows ,thoughts ,emotions ,success & failures, home/room, anything and everything....
Husband and wife are compliment to each other. They are incomplete without one another...we can have a number of friends but we cannot share the same relationship with a friend through out the life....
We need somebody who can lend a ear to you when u feel sad, you could rest your head on his/her shoulder when you need to relax...you need some one who can be with you for ever....who can love you for what you are....who can respect you for what you have achieved...who can appreciate your efforts and help you over come your weaknesses....who can love you forever...
Only we can make our marriage a success… by knowing ourselves more, knowing our priorities, preferences we can have a vague idea about what we want in life...and based on this we should start hunting our soul mate...
We need to know what is that we can't compromise on...what all qualities you would like to have in your other half so that you feel proud to walk beside him/her....its true for the other person as well....
Before getting married, I think we need to find out if we would be able to respect the other person throughout life. You should be able to find more positive n good things in the prospective spouse than negatives.
Also if you find anything negative, you need to decide before hand how will it affect you...are you able to ignore his/her -ve points, considering his/her positives....
Our parent n grand parent didn't have this option to have so many preferences for their marriages and life partners, they use to do lots of compromises to live life together, it was a gamble for them...
But we are lucky to get enough exposure to the world. Being so independent and self dependent. We have all the freedom and rights to have our preferences....
If we are aware of what we are, what we want from life, how we want to live our life .We set our preferences and then hunt somebody who has lot in common to you, whose presence makes you feel special and happy...some one whom u can listen to for hours.
Whom you feel like sharing everything with....somebody who feels the same for you as you do for him/her….
When you get married there would be lots of differences but those positives will help you compromise happily for the other person....
You never know you would be looking for chances to keep him/her happy by compromising :)
You never know you meet somebody who can be you compliment and full fills your life with lots of love, care and affection.....
I think we should not get married just for the sake of getting married...
Before you plan to get marriedJ
-Know yourself more
-know you priorities and preferences
-look for someone with lots of Common interests
And then proceed further..........
If you do not find somebody for long. Do not get frustrated, somebody somewhere is surely made for you...so keep searching till you find him/her...
Do not get married to anybody till you are fully convinced and satisfied else it leads only to compromises and not to happily compromises....
So hunt and Get married with whole heart and live happily every after….
That’s all from my side....
Hope it helps :)
Poo...
I think the concept of marriage is the most important and yes most beautiful thing that can ever happen to us......
We have good friends, Family n the whole world but still we look for someone special… our sweetheart:) with whom we can share our life ,love ,feelings ,joys & sorrows ,thoughts ,emotions ,success & failures, home/room, anything and everything....
Husband and wife are compliment to each other. They are incomplete without one another...we can have a number of friends but we cannot share the same relationship with a friend through out the life....
We need somebody who can lend a ear to you when u feel sad, you could rest your head on his/her shoulder when you need to relax...you need some one who can be with you for ever....who can love you for what you are....who can respect you for what you have achieved...who can appreciate your efforts and help you over come your weaknesses....who can love you forever...
Only we can make our marriage a success… by knowing ourselves more, knowing our priorities, preferences we can have a vague idea about what we want in life...and based on this we should start hunting our soul mate...
We need to know what is that we can't compromise on...what all qualities you would like to have in your other half so that you feel proud to walk beside him/her....its true for the other person as well....
Before getting married, I think we need to find out if we would be able to respect the other person throughout life. You should be able to find more positive n good things in the prospective spouse than negatives.
Also if you find anything negative, you need to decide before hand how will it affect you...are you able to ignore his/her -ve points, considering his/her positives....
Our parent n grand parent didn't have this option to have so many preferences for their marriages and life partners, they use to do lots of compromises to live life together, it was a gamble for them...
But we are lucky to get enough exposure to the world. Being so independent and self dependent. We have all the freedom and rights to have our preferences....
If we are aware of what we are, what we want from life, how we want to live our life .We set our preferences and then hunt somebody who has lot in common to you, whose presence makes you feel special and happy...some one whom u can listen to for hours.
Whom you feel like sharing everything with....somebody who feels the same for you as you do for him/her….
When you get married there would be lots of differences but those positives will help you compromise happily for the other person....
You never know you would be looking for chances to keep him/her happy by compromising :)
You never know you meet somebody who can be you compliment and full fills your life with lots of love, care and affection.....
I think we should not get married just for the sake of getting married...
Before you plan to get marriedJ
-Know yourself more
-know you priorities and preferences
-look for someone with lots of Common interests
And then proceed further..........
If you do not find somebody for long. Do not get frustrated, somebody somewhere is surely made for you...so keep searching till you find him/her...
Do not get married to anybody till you are fully convinced and satisfied else it leads only to compromises and not to happily compromises....
So hunt and Get married with whole heart and live happily every after….
That’s all from my side....
Hope it helps :)
Poo...
posted by Relaxpoo... at 1:41 PM
7 comments
