Stop FROWNING at others and Start SMILING:-)

It was a tiring n stressful day..
I was sitting in my cab for drop from offc till home,waiting for other cab mates to come....Listening to music, relaxing, trying to forget offc n release stress by listening to my favourite songs....A gal comes n stands on the door,
Very politely,with a smile on my face I requested her,If she could come in from the other door as I am the first drop and I'll have to get down first....
Very rudely she replied in heavy voice,"why cant you let me in from this side, I m not asking you to sit in the middle anyways....".
I was strucked! and felt lil bad too the way she replied...
But I decided not to react and jus smiled n said,"no problem" and gave her the way....

I didn't react but couldn't stopped thinking bout it.....
I was trying to understand why did she reply in that tone? I was soo polite to her:-)
I felt like a puppy bit me....hehe;-)
We all would have heard the Quote "A SMILE is a curve that makes everything strainght"
but what she did actually contradicts this....
But I like smiling and strongly believe it helps in all ways...
It's positive always...
I din't want to accept that it doesn't work and I kept on justifying why did I allow her to do this to me... Finally, I managed to find a reason,I think she was more frustated in life than I was :-)May be something bad happened in offc and she was not in a good mood and this satisfies me.....
but unknowingly she spoilt my evening :-(

Think bout a situation,in which you SMILE at someone whom you see everyday but you have never spoken.You never know you made his day:-)
Who knows he was walking with lots of stress and pressure....

I seen people FROWNING and shouting at each others to prove others faulty in traffic ,
Even if they are getting late for offc they would stop by and shout n argue for some time and then go.....
In office I have seen people who are timid and who never say anything back to anybody, If they make mistake..People want to show they know better than them....
When if you are better you can be a guide for them.......(it depends..)
We can try ignoring few things provided it can be ignored.....
Wait for few seconds before reacting n See if you can Smile and be more Rational....
Think before reacting and see is it really required to shout and Frown...
n then proceed........

Nowadays, everybody is so busy in keeping their personal and professional commitments.Life is so complicated,nothing looks straight and easy here.....
So "lets stop frowning at others and start smiling", from today....
Your smile doesn't cost anythng to you but may give immense happiness and tranquility to others....
Keep smiling always:)

Poo....

"Experience"

At this point I feel.....we should try to take life as it comes and keep facing the obstacles in
our way n keep gaining valuable learnings out of our struggle and bad
times...
Experience...It helps us handling ourselves in a better way even in
adverse conditions.It gives us a vision to analyse our ideas before we
actually execute them...It adds maturity to our actions and reactions in every situation,
once we gain experience we handle similar situations in a better way....

We face so many bad phases in life,some times we overcome some times we
fail.Dont feel bad if it your turn this time....dont lose hope n keep trying to overcome it...it'll get over soon,it has to! .And every single bit of it gives you a lesson...
U'll raise a lil higher from where you were....
The more u face more u learn.... and then like carbon we turn to a crafted diamond after facing ups and downs in life....and everybody around can see that radiance in u......

End of it we faile or pass we should be thankful to God that,we learnt
soo much from life and got chance to become a better person:-)

Something that I have learnt or identified the need of improvement:-)

-Do not react immediately even if you are not convinced
-Think before you shoot a word
-Learn to listen to others and respect their view aswell
-Smile makes ur presence pleasing and personality approachable
-Be Accountable for your mistakes
-Do not drag the past with you to spoil your present..forget it!
-Take precautions and stop thinking of the futuristic and nonexistant
problems it spoils your present.
-Give importance to youself
-Keep youself happy
-Keep you room ,bed,ambiance neat n soothing to your eyes,it gives peace to your mind.
-Help whenever you can.
-Find a way to communicate your views,ideas,thoughts,feelings etc..
-Identify and ask for help from the right person.
-Sincerity and hardwork can be late but pays for sure.
-Be Independent...
-You should be able to get your things done,nomatter how..coz excuses are
not entertained.
-Keep giving without expecting much.
-You can only trust your parents for anythng anytime.
-Be open to new things,ideas and thoughts.
-Dont lie to yourself.
-Its easy to be transparent n honest!
-Do not show your imotions to everybody you meet.
-Give time to youself and to your loved ones.
-Make your loved ones feel confident that they can count on you anytime.
-Less information is the cause of all confusions.
-Relevant Information at the right time can be a reason of your triumph.
-Try to find positives more than negatives.
-Identify and Improve yourself anytime u realize there is a need.
-Be receptive to the people's feedback(It has to be the rite one though;))
-Dont be scared of rejection..you would not get something only if you dont deserve it or you deserve something better:)
-Never Regret for what ever has happened.

hmmmm.....I knw one life and lotz to learn.....but we need to start some where:-)
Take care all:-)

Poo...

"Expectation"

We feel sad or happy because of our expectations..but i also feel these expectations are required to some extent...lets take an example of a couple in love with each other,if they dont have expectations with each other they'll be more practical but with less intimacy between them....to some extent "Expectations" defines depth of our relationship,needs,likes,dislikes,how much you want each other..in other words it defines us...if we do not expect anything with anybody in this world and try being on our own,we can be independent this way but all alone :)
I do agree we some times do not have control on our expectations and this is when we are trapped:-)but then if we stop expecting anything from anybody..life woud be stagnant and boring...If we expect something and it doesn't happens due to some reason..it could be a reason of deep grief:-(but then it has positive n negative both sides......

Better is to keep giving more than expecting.....
and you get the return without asking :-)


Poo...